Day 18: NEIGHBOR
It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood, a beautiful day in the neighborhood…
This melody rings through my home at least once a day. Netflix just came to Nepal, and all my kids have wanted to watch for the last month is Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood.
I love that my four year old sings, Thank you for everything you do to me while she’s brushing her teeth and has learned to Flush, Wash, and Go. Daniel’s mom and dad always are understanding of his whiny ways and sing sweet songs to teach him how to maneuver around his tiny tigey-centered world. In some ways, I wish I was more like them.
Or that I was more like the dad of young girl who starred in a recent viral video. He held her, standing on the bathroom sink looking in the mirror reciting some inspiring words before she went off to school. It is super adorable and sweet, and I admire such a hands-on and loving parent. But I stumbled over part of it which kept me from sharing for sake of smiles.
He leads her in saying, ”I am the best. No one is better than me.” She repeats, “I am not better than anyone else,” but the number of time she states, “I am beautiful. I am amazing. I am the best” caused me to just forget about that part completely. I wonder if she did too.
I want my children to be bold and confident and sure that God made them special because it is true. But I also want them to understand that God made them special for service.
Unfortunately for my fun-loving, self-centered children (and for me too) a Biblical application of the concepts of being a good neighbor is a lot less fun than play-dates and birthday parties in Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood.
Fulfill ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves. Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others. Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross (Philippians 2:2-8).
Teaching these truths doesn’t even feel like living the Golden Rule towards my children because my own flesh fights them so fiercely. However, I am confident that one of the best things I can do to ensure lasting joy for my children is to teach them how to treat other people. How to make a snappy new day not for themselves but for others.
Some days living the Golden Rule turns out to bless us in tremendous ways and, on others, our kindness is not rewarded. We have only the satisfaction of having done right.
We say we want our kids to be like Jesus, but this is one of the million and one ways we don’t. Jesus loved and poured himself out for people who called for His crucifixion. His great love was spat upon by the very people for whom He died. Yet, He still commands us to love every single hot mess person we meet (unfortunately, there is not a friendly face on every street just waiting to greet us!).
We don’t want to stand in front of our mirrors and say, “I was made for Jesus. In this world, I am nothing. I will lift up the needs of others and seek to glorify God with my life.” It goes against our very nature which is nurturing our children in the Word of God is so vital. And we can’t skip the hard parts.
I have to believe that friends who show themselves friendly will find their tribe and be loved in the loving. In the fear of all the ways humility will hurt my children, I am certain the love of Jesus will cover the multitudes of sins against them.
At times, there may be a lot more suffering than singing in our neighborhood, but it is ultimately a joyful place. It’s a place I’m happy to show my kids around even if it has its dark corners.
When my kids want to know why can’t we live in Daniel Tiger’s neighborhood, I’ll remind them, It’s a land of make believe.
Are you teaching your children to live the Golden Rule?
How can you encourage your children to serve others despite the cost?
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Oh what a lesson. Even for this empty-nester. Excellent Amber. It needs to be the cry of every believing mama’s heart.
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I was certainly challenged just thinking on these things but feared that I did not communicate them well.
THIS: “Yet, He still commands us to love every single hot mess person we meet ” Yes!
It always tickles me when you do this 🙂 Thanks so much, Tara!
Thanks so much for stopping by my online home today. I can’t imagine how different life must be from Atlanta to Nepal! The truths you are teaching your children through instilling God’s word in them is priceless!
Thanks for hopping back over here! Life in Nepal is certainly different than my experience in Atlanta, but the glimpse of big city life has certainly helped! Your words are so encouraging. I feel like I fail them every day, but I am so thankful for the confidence I have of Christ speaking through me and just try to keep my big stinky attitude out of the way.